At the same time, when you and your partner are rooted in different faiths, cultures or nations, your couple or marital relationship is more complex than that of couples who come from similar backgrounds.
One or both of you may be grieving the loss of a childhood culture or faith. This loss may not have seemed significant to you in the early stages of your relationship but it certainly can become so. Meanwhile, your partner may not understand the depth of your grief.
Or perhaps the biases and prejudices of your ancestors are beginning to impact your relationship in surprising and hurtful ways.
Over time, the pleasure you experienced in exploring cultural similarities fades. You begin to realize that some of the differences go deeper than you imagined. You may still hope that your love can overcome these differences, but you also see that for now, they are driving you apart.