Are you and your partner on different pages sexually? Do physical performance issues or a lack of desire get in the way of intimacy? Are you afraid the sexual relationship you once shared is gone, never to return?
When you lose sexual intimacy with your partner, it can be a lonely feeling. Perhaps the lack of sex is due to life changes. Things like a new baby, raising young children, the demands of a career, adjusting to retirement, or ageing may be affecting sexual activity with your partner.
Maybe you’re too tired to make love or spend quality time together. Other commitments seem to take priority, and when fatigue inevitably sets in at the end of the day, neither of you feels like having sex.
Or it could be your sex drives aren’t matching up—one of you is satisfied with the amount of sex you’re having while the other feels like it’s nowhere near enough. This sexual disconnect might be causing conflict and resentment between you.